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May 14 2009

Foreign Women And International Dating Success In 3 Fast And Furious Steps

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The notion that most foreign women who look to find love online want to marry an American, Canadian or European in order to gain citizenship to their country has been hyped up to a frenzy in the media to create scandal and increase TV ratings. The reality is, most foreign women who search online for a friend, lover, or husband are well educated with deeply cemented roots to their family. They live very happy lives at home. What they are missing is a man to love, be affectionate with and with whom they can create a family of their own.

In most cases foreign women would prefer if the man moved to be with them instead of them having to leave their home country. Of course this does not usually happen because the men are not willing or immediately able to make the move. So the women make the sacrifice to leave friends, family and country behind in the hopes of succeeding with the man they have chosen to support and love.

With the U.S. National divorce rate at over 45 percent many men today ask themselves, “How do I choose a partner where both of us can be happy together until death do us part?” The following 3 steps can be a successful quick-start guide to the men who seek love and romance outside of the United States. They help answer the question of “can I really find my true love?”

Becoming Scam Proof – Don’t Be A Victim

Most men who look to find love online are worried the girls they meet will scam them. But most of the women online have the best of intentions and the sweetest of dreams when it comes to meeting the right man. What you really need to watch out for is the agencies who use bait-and-switch tactics, charge ridiculously high fees and don’t deliver on their promises. If you are using an honest marriage agency the small chance of finding a dishonest woman gets even smaller. However, the bigger threat of scam lays in the marriage agencies themselves.

Be very careful of agencies and paid sites that do not offer a minimum 30-day money back guarantee. Watch for very high prices for introductions; be sure to compare pricing against several agencies and sites. If you pick 3 or 4 girls you find attractive but the agency does not have their information on hand or can not offer proof they delivered your message to her, be on the alert! They are most likely using models for pictures to bait you in and then switch to the women that are available but you are not attracted to. Avoid any company with sales pressure trying to convince you to join a “romance tour.” Stick to agencies with several customer testimonials, whose prices are reasonable compared to other services, who offer proof of delivery and most importantly who successfully introduce you to the women you like.

Avoiding getting ripped off by a girl you meet is really easy and a matter of common sense. Think of it this way… let us say you know for a fact your soul mate and one-true-love is waiting in a room on the fifth floor of a building. And you have the exact address to this building along with the keys to get in, however; the building is located in the worst part of East L.A. and you have to walk across the hood the get to her. Common sense will get you to her and back safely, you don’t need an army or even a gun. Just good judgment. You would not talk about yourself on the way there; you would not brag of being rich or wear jewelry with hundred dollar bills hanging out of your pockets as you made your way to her. It is the same when communicating with women online.

Don’t brag or boast about yourself. Do not send her money.

Get this straight, a real woman who really cares about you is not going to ask you for any amount of money for any reason (including for the internet bill so she can chat with you). If she is asking you for money before you guys have met, let her go. And if she has agreed to marry you but you have not kissed and she wants to wait till you are married to kiss, let her go. Foreign women are exotic, they are not aliens. The normal ones act just like other normal women, they are proud (and will not request financing), they are affectionate (and will want to kiss and hug you) they are intelligent (they will want to earn your trust and offer you their confidence) so if you experience anything out of sorts or weird, let it be a red flag. When you have enough red flags let her go. There is an endless stream of fine women, who are looking for the right man, don’t let your woman miss her chance because you got hell-bent on some con-artist who took you for a ride. Now that said, there are not many women scamming out there for marriage and dating and some that are, are not women, they are men posing as women.

Don’t Fall In Love – Not Yet

When first looking outside of the United States for love it can be easy to flip head-over-heals for the first or second foreign woman you meet! Even if you are only speaking on the phone or via letters, foreign women have an allure which can hysterically alter your senses like never before, so take your time. There are many women to meet and traveling is a big part of discovering for yourself who your soul-mate is. If possible develop a friendship with a few girls and prepare for a trip. Until then Cyber Date.

Get to know these girls by taking advantage of technology, get creative. Use free instant video chat and free calls with services such as Skype and or minimum cost calls with devices like Magic Jack. You can do all sorts of things including watching movies together, exchange video letters and more. Once you have spent sometime getting to meet high quality women, get ready for a face to face.

Get on a plane and get closer to your new friends. Plan as long a trip as possible; you will want all the time to spend with the girls you have been getting to know. Be sure to slowly take in the new foreign world you have been dropped in the middle of. Some guys rush in and do strike gold. They meet a woman right away, fall in love and are making wedding arrangements within 10 days. Do not force this type of outcome no matter how badly you want it. Love is not a speed dating round, it could start at one, but it grows with time. Be patient, she is there and waiting. Once you meet a girl who stands out from the rest, who really is the woman you are looking for, then you are ready. Now go for it!

Falling In Love – Going For It

The majority of women with a profile online are educated women whose minds and hearts are flooded with creative energy, passion and the purest of desires for themselves and their other half. They are looking for love, just like you.

Once you have spent time getting to know your girl, you have flown to meet her and her family at least once and you both have spoken clearly about your goals, dreams and life pursuits it could be the grand beginning. If you feel that special enchantment over you, it could be you are in love and ready for a life together. Go for it!

Fall in love, follow your heart and see for yourself how sweet life becomes with the foreign girl you met online who magically filled your life with a force of inspiration.

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May 12 2009

International Dating – Discover The Ultimate 9 Hot Spots Where The Most Exotic Foreign Women On Earth Live

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1) Costa Rica: The country has 2 coasts, one on the Caribbean Ocean and one on the Pacific Coast. It has 7 Volcanoes and is an Edenic Paradise filled with Earth Angels. You may never want to leave!

2) Brazil: Brazil is a mystical country and the women are enchanted creatures. It’s a dream state experience you are never sure you lived. You will try it again just to see if it really was that good.

3) Cuba: Is an international dating secret reserved for the elite. The purest and most untouched baby dolls live on this island. The level of feminine scent in the air is intoxicating and can cause a man to lose all his senses. Cuba is the forbidden fruit of paradise.

4) Colombia: This is an enormous country is the 26th largest nation in the world. But has among the finest ladies anywhere on the planet. The juicy sugar sweetness pours out of their skins and wraps you up in a loving embrace. Don’t believe everything you hear in the news, take your time to discover where in Colombia you can travel safely and go have a blast!

5) Dominican Republic: Dominican Republic is home to exotic women who fill the island country from all sides. If you enjoy classic romance with a fusion of wild tribal blood these women are exactly what you are looking for. Do not hold back, because they sure won’t.

6) Venezuela: Venezuelan women have dominated the Miss Universe Pageant like no other country ever has. The women look like the came down from Heaven but act like their feet never left the ground. They are knock-out head turners with simple hearts and humble souls. The country is self is an adventure to be discovered.

7) Argentina: Feisty, fire and spice are just the beginning of what you will find in Argentina. The steaks, the wine and the atmosphere will transport you to the perfect getaway, the women will carry you to ecstasy. These women have old world genes with Latin descent and offer men the ideal mix of Europe and the Americas.
8) Russia: This is a preferred country for many men from America. These women have the typical blue eyed blond look but with the feminine characteristics which are hard to find in today’s developed nations. The food and Vodka are of premium quality and sharing late night dessert in the Red Square with a rocking Russian girl is hard to beat!

9) Philippines: The sad part are the over played news stories which overshadow the fantastic reality. Philippine women are among the most exotic and rare beauties in all of Asia. Much like the food, the women bring a blend of native allure mixed with mysterious captivation.

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May 08 2009

An Introduction To Dating for Disabled People

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If you have a disability, regardless of what type it is, it may not be as restrictive as you may think. This is especially true these days with the existence of Internet disability dating. While before it may have been hard to find a date if you have some form of disability, the Internet has helped bring a great number of people together. It is an ideal meeting place for people who you would not normally meet under other circumstances.

There are plenty of sites out there which cater for disabled people and help to introduce other people to you who you would be better suited to. There are even websites that cater for specific disabilities and can help you to lead the most normal lifestyle possible.

These websites work by bringing people together by way of communication via the Internet. They allow you to post profiles and photos onto the site and meet other people based on these. This has the potential to allow you to meet them in real life, people who you would otherwise never have met.

Until recently, there were relatively few options for the disabled, but nowadays, the Internet provides a place to meet people of like minds who you can understand and who can understand you and your situation. With such social networking sites catering for specific groups of people, there truly is something for everyone.

A good online dating agency should be safe, secure, and have plenty of success stories associated with it. In addition to this, any good dating site should have a high number of members with active profiles.

In conclusion, be optimistic, and live your life to the full. With all the options out there, being disabled does not always have to be a huge strain on your life.

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November 27 2008

Online Dating – Who Exactly are You?

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These days, more and more singles are finding their perfect mate on the Internet via online dating – and a few unlucky ones are finding their perfect online dating sob story! The Internet is a faceless communications medium in which any person can be anything they claim to be. This makes it easy for the liars to fool their way into your head and into your heart – but it can also make for the beginnings of a very strong relationship. Online dating allows you to get to know each other more deeply than just a casual meeting at a bus stop before committing to a meeting. How do you determine whether you’ve caught a keeper or a throw-me-back?

So think you’ve found a perfect bloke!

You’ve been hanging about in your favourite online dating chat room, and just last week this new guy came in. His nickname is RussellCrowe, which set your heart a-thumping the minute you saw it, and of course you had to talk with him. “You’re not REALLY Russell, are you? No? Do you look like him?” He answers in the negative to both, telling you that he looks better than Crowe, actually. He’s a Sydney barrister, with offices in the CBD. And you’re off and running.

Over the course of a few days you spend ten or twelve hours chatting with him online. You feel like you can tell this man anything, and he seems to be telling you all of the deeper thoughts and feelings he has. How do you know he’s for real? Here are a few ways to find out.

What does he look like?

For starters, always ask for pictures. That is pictures, plural. Why?

A philanderer may have found a generic photograph of some suitable bloke on the web and downloaded it to call his own. It is unlikely that they will have more than one photo to share with you if this is the case. In this modern era of inexpensive digital cameras and high speed connections for uploading images to online dating sites quickly, there is almost no reason for a person not to have three, four, a half-dozen photographs of themselves doing various things, from sitting in their lounge to hoisting a schooner at the hotel and back again. If you’re presented with pictures that were clearly taken all at one sitting, and moreso, if they appear to be professional sorts of images, this should raise a warning bell. If he looks like he’s perfect in the pictures, this too, should raise the alarms. Real people don’t tend to be flawless.

What are his interests?

Does the fellow seem to be interested in everything that you are? Or does he have any interests that you don’t share? If he’s just involved in the things that you mention first, ask him what else he enjoys. An answer of “Oh, you know, this and that! Let’s talk more about YOU!” is really not what you are looking for. A real human being has strong likes and dislikes of his own, and is generally willing to share them, sometimes in too much detail.

Do you have friends in common?

You both live in Sydney or its environs, and you both chat in the Sydney chat room on hook me up your favourite website. It’s an odds on bet that you’ve got at least one or two online dating friends in common, if not in offline life, then online. Talk to your common friends and ask them about this man. Be prepared to be surprised, but hope for a good report.

Is he consistent?

The number of fakers who are caught through simple inconsistencies is amazing. If he tells you on Monday that he’s a big fan of Cold Chisel, but then on Friday he doesn’t recognize the lyrics to “When the War is Over”, you may have a problem there. If he tells you that he’s a big Star Wars fan, but doesn’t know which planet Luke Skywalker was from, you should probably be wary. If, on the other hand, he tells you every detail of Luke’s life, and knows how his face got mangled in real life, he’ll be apples, mate!

Is he willing to let you ring him?

If a guy you meet online is unwilling to give you his home telephone number, this could be a sign that he’s got a reason he doesn’t want calls at home – for example, he’s married or living with somebody. This is not certain, as, for example, some people these days only have mobile phones, and others may be concerned about giving out personal contact information to a total stranger from the Internet. Online dating can be a bit of a challenge for both daters

The show-down!

Of course, nothing will guarantee that this person is everything that they claim to be, except for meeting them in person and really getting to know them. This hold for the world of online dating and chance meetings.

The first few dates should be conducted with some amount of safety precautions, as once again, this is a stranger you are meeting. Just as you wouldn’t want to go off alone with a stranger you’ve just met at a pub, you want to ensure maximum safety with somebody you’ve just met online.

Meet in a well frequented place, for example, under the dome at the QVB.

Bring a friend, and suggest that he bring one as well if you mention this in advance. If you can’t bring a friend for whatever reason, make sure that at least three friends know where you are going and why you are going there. Arrange check-in times to ring them up and let them know that all is well. Also ask them to call you at least once so you can escape if you are on a date with Mr Creepy

Don’t bring a person you’ve just met to your home, nor should you go to theirs. Save that for when you know each other better.

Recap

The simple fact is that most of the people you meet online will be pretty much what they present themselves as, but there’s always one bad apple in every barrel. By checking for consistency, believability, and keeping basic safety in your thoughts without being paranoid, you could end up meeting the person you will marry one day. Anybody who doesn’t feel that expecting these things from a potential date or mate is probably not somebody you want to seriously consider spending much time with, either online or off.

Happy dating!

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November 22 2008

The Internet & Online Dating Sites – the Good and the Bad

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The good.

Today’s singles and most people, generally speaking, are very lucky with the online choices they have compared to 10 or 20 years ago given the options the internet now offers them. 20 years ago there were far less online options than are available now days. Mobile phones are a good example of how far the internet has progressed in recent years. Several decades ago paging services or cb radios were the fastest way to contact someone when they were not at home. Today though, mobiles are used to carry out several non related functions, the actual mobile itself is just one of many features. Mobiles can be used as a video camera, surfing the internet, gps device and online dating. That right online dating…..will technology ever slow down ? I doubt it! Today’s singles can experience online dating not only from their pc and laptop but also from their mobile meaning they can organize a date 24/7 anywhere, anytime.

Another excellent advantage online dating has is the capability for singles to get right down to business and sift through the thousands member profiles until someone catches their eye. No need to feel guilty by having to tell your new internet friend your not interested, you simply move onto the next profile. Chat rooms commonly provide singles another fantastic way of communicating with other singles and still allows you an easy out if need be.

No need to spend money or even dress up to go internet dating. Some dating sites offer free online dating its just a matter of searching through the many dating sites on the internet to find them, so locating the ultimate in happiness doesn’t even need to cost you one single cent. Cancel your hairdressers appointment, for the females that is, not that its not okay for the males to book in at the hairdressers although if you are a guy who’s just signed up to an online dating site, admitting to booking in for a new hair do may not sit all that well with the girls you chat to online. Forget the make up and after shave, online dating gives you the chance to win over your next date with just your personality alone via the chat rooms.

Short of time? Does your job hold you back from getting out and socializing? Search for like minded singles in the chat rooms or via the member data base in a matter of minutes, fire off emails and chat invitations to those you find attractive, then simply go back to your normal daily routine. Check back online during the day or several days later and you may have a nice surprise waiting for you in your messages.

The bad.

Some singles can become too reliant on using online dating sites and can end up socially separated from real life social possibilities. For those who fall into this category should be careful that you don’t lose important social skills by relying on online dating services too often. Use it but try not to abuse it. Like anything in life, participate in online dating, but in moderation.

Singles interviewed in studies conducted by Professor Parnizky from Macintosh University who claim to being addicted to online dating said that their first thought was to log on to a dating site in search of love, rather than to venture out offline to put themselves in a situation where they could possibly meet with other singles in the offline world. These same singles mainly indicated that they felt they were losing and had all but lost touch with finding a romantic partner conventionally.

A regular complaint online dating members spoke of was that when they met their online dating friend in person, certain physical features were some what different to what was stated on their member profile. Their photos were not current, or were taken in a studio or sometimes wasn’t even them.

For those thinking about online dating, don’t get too hung up with this dating option and use these services to your advantage but don’t over do it. Treat it as some fun and don’t have alot of expectations, this is the best way to approach online dating and you just never know what you may find.

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July 04 2008

Tell Us Your Singles & Online Dating Experiences, Strategies and Insights

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With the growing popularity of online dating as a valid, fun and useful way to meet people, La Trobe University’s School of Public Health and the Australian Research Centre in Sex, Health and Society are conducting a project to find out about the experiences of young adults who use online dating. In particular they’re looking to interview people between the ages of 18 and 30.

This project grew out of a smaller study conducted by one of the researchers, Danielle Couch, when she was studying and using online dating herself:

‘I’d used various online dating sites to meet people and had my own little processes for making my way through the online dating world. I’d send a wink or a kiss, maybe we’d correspond via a few emails or chat online for a while. Then if we decided to meet face to face I’d want to think about when and where that would be. I started wondering if other people followed the same kind of routine or did they do things differently. So I started developing a research idea.

The outcome of Danielle’s ponderings was a small research project as part of her post-graduate studies. She interviewed 15 people online, using chat. In the interviews the participants chatted online about their own online dating experiences, what they did and didn’t do to manage risk, how many people they’d met, how many people they’d had *** with through online dating, did they take safety precautions, were they into safe *** and how did it all compare to meeting people in other ways.

Working in public health, I knew there’d been some research in the US looking at the relationship between online dating and the spread of sexually transmitted infections  – how the internet can let you meet people quickly and how it could be an efficient way to access casual *** partners and potentially spread infection. I wondered was this relevant in Australia? Did other online daters think about this stuff? Was it any different to going out and picking someone up in a bar on the weekend?’

The interviews ranged from 30 minutes to 3 hours in duration, depending on what each person wanted to share and what else they were doing at the time.

One of the things about interviewing people online is that you have to recognise they’re probably multi-tasking. We all do it when we’re online. So I knew when I was chatting with people I was one of several things they might be doing – that’s just the reality of being online. I had one memorable interview where a participant was in four other dating related chats and also watching some sexually explicit webcam action. I remember her apologising to me at one stage as she was a bit slow in responding to one of my questions as she was getting distracted by the web-cam show.

The general consensus was the people interviewed enjoyed the process; in fact several interviewees would often update Danielle via chat on their most recent experiences as they wanted these included in the project.

The findings from this earlier study have led to the current project. Over the next few months the researchers are looking to interview between 30 and 40 people via chat about their online dating experiences. If you’d like to be part of this project and share your thoughts, experiences and opinions about online dating then just add onlinedating@latrobe.edu.au to your messenger or visit project webpage to find out more. All interviews will be confidential.



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January 18 2007

Online Dating Research Update – Hookmeup & La Trobe University

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The research is being conducted online in IM with online daters between the ages of 18 and 30. Participants chat with the interviewer about their online dating experiences – what’s been good, what’s been bad and anything in between. Participants discuss if they think there’s anything risky about online dating, how many people they’ve met through online dating, what have been the outcomes of these meetings and how does it all compare to meeting people in other ways.

 

Well, some of the interim results are in and we’d like to share them with you.

 

Professor Pranee Liamputtong says:

It’s interesting, when we compare these early project findings to some similar research we did five years ago, you can see a real change in how and why people are using online dating. Five years ago online dating was less common and a lot of people felt some stigma around using it, whereas now it’s much more the norm. Many participants are reporting that this is one of the most common ways they and their friends meet people.

 

So what are people using online dating for? Participants so far have shared a variety of reasons. It seems most people seem to be using online dating to seek out a long term partner. But that’s not to say *** doesn’t feature. For some people online dating still offers an opportunity to explore their sexuality; such as allowing people to try different sexual behaviours or to explore their sexual orientation. As one participant who uses online dating as with her partner summed up “meet people and maybe have sum fun, make friends”.

 

Online dating also offers a great way for people to widen their networks allowing you to meet people that you wouldn’t otherwise and it can all be done when you’re comfortable at home. One participant noted that she liked online dating because it “enabling me to meet someone who I shared interests with – without having the hassle of trying to have a conversation in some noisy bar or pub where all of the guys mates are watching his every move”.

 

Of course everyone has some method of screening their potential dates. The most obvious are by looks and personality as they are displayed initially through a profile and then through chat, email and phone calls. But how else are our fellow online daters screening their potential hook ups?

 

Increasingly people are using an array of online methods to screen their dating prospects. Some people like to look for consistency between what a person writes on their profile and what they type in chat. Some people like to use webcam as it helps them read body language and expressions to assess sincerity and honesty. And now with the rise of social networking sites, a number of online daters will check out their prospective dates MySpace or Facebook pages to see if everything adds up and matches what they already been told and the photos they’ve already seen.

 

So does this all sound similar or different to your own online dating experiences?  If you’d like to be part of this project and share your thoughts, experiences and opinions about online dating then just add onlinedating@latrobe.edu.au to your messenger or visit the project webpage to find out more.

 



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