A lot of guys I know, dream about getting away to a warm beach paradise or ice-cold cabin retreat in the woods with a wildly delicious foreign babe who makes all their fantasies come true. And most of these guys are not looking for a quick one-night stand, they are really seeking love and affection. The kind of love and affection they have a near impossible time finding back home.

Today with the lightning speed advances in technology, travel and communication are becoming faster and cheaper with each passing day fueling the international dating frenzy.

Maybe you are planning a trip to a foreign land or are thinking about it. Maybe you would like to explore the possibility of discovering love while you are on vacation and are wondering how you can meet foreign ladies.

If you would like to travel and meet exciting exotic foreign women there is no reason for you to wait till you arrive in a new country.

You can and in fact you should start meeting interesting ladies from your planned destination long before you ever take off. You can safely and successfully take full advantage of the Internet to find and communicate with the exact type of woman you are most interested in.

The following 3 steps will help you plan the perfect overseas trip and help you meet beautiful foreign women all from the comfort of your own home. Keep reading to discover one of the best kept secrets on travel and global romance.

Selecting Your Town & Country

Before going anywhere or picking out any passionate ladies to make friends with you need to select the country and city you will be traveling to.

Unless you have the time and money required to jet set around the globe you will need to get specific about the foreign country you most would like to meet women in. And from there you will need to drill down to which town or city most appeals to you.

In many countries, cities can be hundred’s and even thousands of miles apart. One girl you meet may be in a coastal area while another may live 1,327 miles away in an urban city across the mountains. Yet both of them still live in the same country.

So unless you plan on doing a lot of international and national traveling I suggest you start looking into the countries and cities you most resonate with. If you don’t know what country or city to choose start with asking yourself what you prefer, do you enjoy mountains, the jungle, big cities, the beach, rural areas or Arctic snow?

Some countries like Costa Rica offer all of the above minus the Arctic snow and big cities. Other countries like the Ukraine or Russia have mountains, big cities and Arctic snow but lack jungle and beaches. The first thing to figure out is where you would like to go.

Remember your trip is about more than just finding a woman; it is about self-discovery and adventure! Pick a place you know you will love.

Here are steps you should take to get an immediate pain free, cost free crash course on the places you are thinking of visiting. You can do these steps in any sequence you choose.

First, make a list of places you would like to visit.

Second, do an Internet search for each country on your list and read the Wikipedia results. Then do a Google News search on the country to see what are the latest lies and over exaggerated half-truths the media is spreading about them, the purpose of this is to get an idea of the general idea of the culture.

Third, go to Google Images and pull up some pictures of each country. Then do an image search for pictures of the women from each nation.

Now you want to go search for online groups, travel blogs and forums which discuss the places you are thinking of going to.

Meeting Foreign Women For Free While Sitting At Home On Your Couch

Once you have selected a final destination it is time to meet the women!

When meeting foreign girls make sure you are clear on your objectives (what you are looking for from the girls). The number of women you will be meeting is distracting and becomes overwhelming. You should know upfront if you are looking for casual romance or long-term commitment.

After you are clear on what you want, start saying hello and sending simple friendly (non-sexual) messages over the Internet to women who live where you are going.

No matter if you are traveling 6 weeks from now or 16 months from now, it is never too soon to get started on meeting wonderful women.

When you do this you give the girls a chance to get to know you. A lot of the small talk is done long before you meet. This gives the girls a feeling of familiarity with you and allows for the relationship to move along much faster once you are in front of each other.

When you are finally together with the girls you like there will already be a bond built between the both you. She will have a certain level of trust in you, which you can build on instead of starting from zero.

You won’t be wasting time once on the ground time because you will already know who you like and who you don’t like, way before you leave on your vacation.

As you meet women begin to place them in one of 3 categories.

1) Not interested in her at all. Something seems flaky and off about her.

2) She is cool, definitely friend material.

3) I like her. This is a girl I’d like to take out.

Here’s how dating works with foreign women. First they are much more approachable and friendly than the women you are probably used to. They are more laid back and do not expect nor are they truly impressed by expensive first dates.

To meet women take full advantage of social networking sites like Facebook, Myspace, Hi5 and professional networking sites like Linked. These are excellent free resources for meeting foreign women.

You can create a fully functioning membership and browse for women you think you would like to meet without paying. When you come across a profile you like just send her a quick request to be friends.

Some of the women on the social sites, especially the more professional networking sites, are fully bi-lingual.

A social site like Craigslist is also a wonderful bridge to really cool women in foreign countries. Craigslist is very popular and easy to use.

You can search by country and city for women who are looking to meet men. You can also post in the specific section of your interests so women can contact you as well.

And with so many sites now hosting free online profiles doing some searches on line will also turn up a variety of women. Make sure to include the country name when doing online searches for free profiles. For example if you wanted profiles of women in Colombia you would type, “Colombia+free+women+profile”.

I have a dear friend who used I.C.Q to meet his foreign bride. He traveled to her country about a year after they first met online and he never came back. He is now happily married, with a business of his own and a growing family.

Just like with any other online connection make sure you use good judgment and be aware of any red flags and warning signs which come up when meeting women. By applying common sense and never sending anyone you meet over the Internet money you will protect yourself from every dating scam and online romance scam under the sun.

Finally, have fun, travel with an open mind and pure heart. The women will adore you and appreciate you for who you are so don’t go out of your way to show off or be the guy you are not. Be yourself, be romantic and you will discover love beyond your borders.

The notion that most foreign women who look to find love online want to marry an American, Canadian or European in order to gain citizenship to their country has been hyped up to a frenzy in the media to create scandal and increase TV ratings. The reality is, most foreign women who search online for a friend, lover, or husband are well educated with deeply cemented roots to their family. They live very happy lives at home. What they are missing is a man to love, be affectionate with and with whom they can create a family of their own.

In most cases foreign women would prefer if the man moved to be with them instead of them having to leave their home country. Of course this does not usually happen because the men are not willing or immediately able to make the move. So the women make the sacrifice to leave friends, family and country behind in the hopes of succeeding with the man they have chosen to support and love.

With the U.S. National divorce rate at over 45 percent many men today ask themselves, “How do I choose a partner where both of us can be happy together until death do us part?” The following 3 steps can be a successful quick-start guide to the men who seek love and romance outside of the United States. They help answer the question of “can I really find my true love?”

Becoming Scam Proof – Don’t Be A Victim

Most men who look to find love online are worried the girls they meet will scam them. But most of the women online have the best of intentions and the sweetest of dreams when it comes to meeting the right man. What you really need to watch out for is the agencies who use bait-and-switch tactics, charge ridiculously high fees and don’t deliver on their promises. If you are using an honest marriage agency the small chance of finding a dishonest woman gets even smaller. However, the bigger threat of scam lays in the marriage agencies themselves.

Be very careful of agencies and paid sites that do not offer a minimum 30-day money back guarantee. Watch for very high prices for introductions; be sure to compare pricing against several agencies and sites. If you pick 3 or 4 girls you find attractive but the agency does not have their information on hand or can not offer proof they delivered your message to her, be on the alert! They are most likely using models for pictures to bait you in and then switch to the women that are available but you are not attracted to. Avoid any company with sales pressure trying to convince you to join a “romance tour.” Stick to agencies with several customer testimonials, whose prices are reasonable compared to other services, who offer proof of delivery and most importantly who successfully introduce you to the women you like.

Avoiding getting ripped off by a girl you meet is really easy and a matter of common sense. Think of it this way… let us say you know for a fact your soul mate and one-true-love is waiting in a room on the fifth floor of a building. And you have the exact address to this building along with the keys to get in, however; the building is located in the worst part of East L.A. and you have to walk across the hood the get to her. Common sense will get you to her and back safely, you don’t need an army or even a gun. Just good judgment. You would not talk about yourself on the way there; you would not brag of being rich or wear jewelry with hundred dollar bills hanging out of your pockets as you made your way to her. It is the same when communicating with women online.

Don’t brag or boast about yourself. Do not send her money.

Get this straight, a real woman who really cares about you is not going to ask you for any amount of money for any reason (including for the internet bill so she can chat with you). If she is asking you for money before you guys have met, let her go. And if she has agreed to marry you but you have not kissed and she wants to wait till you are married to kiss, let her go. Foreign women are exotic, they are not aliens. The normal ones act just like other normal women, they are proud (and will not request financing), they are affectionate (and will want to kiss and hug you) they are intelligent (they will want to earn your trust and offer you their confidence) so if you experience anything out of sorts or weird, let it be a red flag. When you have enough red flags let her go. There is an endless stream of fine women, who are looking for the right man, don’t let your woman miss her chance because you got hell-bent on some con-artist who took you for a ride. Now that said, there are not many women scamming out there for marriage and dating and some that are, are not women, they are men posing as women.

Don’t Fall In Love – Not Yet

When first looking outside of the United States for love it can be easy to flip head-over-heals for the first or second foreign woman you meet! Even if you are only speaking on the phone or via letters, foreign women have an allure which can hysterically alter your senses like never before, so take your time. There are many women to meet and traveling is a big part of discovering for yourself who your soul-mate is. If possible develop a friendship with a few girls and prepare for a trip. Until then Cyber Date.

Get to know these girls by taking advantage of technology, get creative. Use free instant video chat and free calls with services such as Skype and or minimum cost calls with devices like Magic Jack. You can do all sorts of things including watching movies together, exchange video letters and more. Once you have spent sometime getting to meet high quality women, get ready for a face to face.

Get on a plane and get closer to your new friends. Plan as long a trip as possible; you will want all the time to spend with the girls you have been getting to know. Be sure to slowly take in the new foreign world you have been dropped in the middle of. Some guys rush in and do strike gold. They meet a woman right away, fall in love and are making wedding arrangements within 10 days. Do not force this type of outcome no matter how badly you want it. Love is not a speed dating round, it could start at one, but it grows with time. Be patient, she is there and waiting. Once you meet a girl who stands out from the rest, who really is the woman you are looking for, then you are ready. Now go for it!

Falling In Love – Going For It

The majority of women with a profile online are educated women whose minds and hearts are flooded with creative energy, passion and the purest of desires for themselves and their other half. They are looking for love, just like you.

Once you have spent time getting to know your girl, you have flown to meet her and her family at least once and you both have spoken clearly about your goals, dreams and life pursuits it could be the grand beginning. If you feel that special enchantment over you, it could be you are in love and ready for a life together. Go for it!

Fall in love, follow your heart and see for yourself how sweet life becomes with the foreign girl you met online who magically filled your life with a force of inspiration.

1) Costa Rica: The country has 2 coasts, one on the Caribbean Ocean and one on the Pacific Coast. It has 7 Volcanoes and is an Edenic Paradise filled with Earth Angels. You may never want to leave!

2) Brazil: Brazil is a mystical country and the women are enchanted creatures. It’s a dream state experience you are never sure you lived. You will try it again just to see if it really was that good.

3) Cuba: Is an international dating secret reserved for the elite. The purest and most untouched baby dolls live on this island. The level of feminine scent in the air is intoxicating and can cause a man to lose all his senses. Cuba is the forbidden fruit of paradise.

4) Colombia: This is an enormous country is the 26th largest nation in the world. But has among the finest ladies anywhere on the planet. The juicy sugar sweetness pours out of their skins and wraps you up in a loving embrace. Don’t believe everything you hear in the news, take your time to discover where in Colombia you can travel safely and go have a blast!

5) Dominican Republic: Dominican Republic is home to exotic women who fill the island country from all sides. If you enjoy classic romance with a fusion of wild tribal blood these women are exactly what you are looking for. Do not hold back, because they sure won’t.

6) Venezuela: Venezuelan women have dominated the Miss Universe Pageant like no other country ever has. The women look like the came down from Heaven but act like their feet never left the ground. They are knock-out head turners with simple hearts and humble souls. The country is self is an adventure to be discovered.

7) Argentina: Feisty, fire and spice are just the beginning of what you will find in Argentina. The steaks, the wine and the atmosphere will transport you to the perfect getaway, the women will carry you to ecstasy. These women have old world genes with Latin descent and offer men the ideal mix of Europe and the Americas.
Russia: This is a preferred country for many men from America. These women have the typical blue eyed blond look but with the feminine characteristics which are hard to find in today’s developed nations. The food and Vodka are of premium quality and sharing late night dessert in the Red Square with a rocking Russian girl is hard to beat!

9) Philippines: The sad part are the over played news stories which overshadow the fantastic reality. Philippine women are among the most exotic and rare beauties in all of Asia. Much like the food, the women bring a blend of native allure mixed with mysterious captivation.