May 07 2009
5 Ways to Get Back at Your Ex
Tagged Under : Advice, Dating, marriage, people, relationships, society
Lets face it, we all want revenge at some point in our lives and you are no exception. Whenever someone hurts us somehow ,its in our blood to seek out vengeance. I remember when my ex dumped me all i could really think of was how i could make her feel the pain i was going through. At the end of it all i learnt a very valuable lesson. Read on to find out what is was…
But before you go and wreck havoc at your ex for hurting you, consider this: by hurting him or her back, you’re stressing yourself out and making your life miserable. If there’s a more positive approach to making your ex feel your pain, will you take it? Here are some ways to get back at your ex without damaging whatever self esteem you have left.
1.Remember that you are worth it. Remember all the good relationships you had in the past? Well they were good because you had something great to offer. Its that thing that makes you a great boyfriend or girlfriend. Dont begin to think that you are not worth it just because your ex did not appreciate you. If you really think about it, its actually their loss not yours.
2. Resist the urge to communicate. Close the doors completely, at least for now. While your mind is in shambles and your ego is almost non-existent, you don’t want thoughts of revenge or what-could-have-been messing you up some more. Remember, in your current mindset, you are more likely to cause trouble by getting reminded often of the way he or she treated you in the past.
3. Take up a new hobby Try to do something you have not done before. A new hobby is ideal because it will keep your mind off your ex.It also gives you the opportunity of making new friends. Think of it as turning to the next chapter of your life.
4. Go out with friends. Share your life with the people you forgot to talk to for the duration of your relationship. Reconnect with family and talk about the feelings you’ve been keeping.
5.Keep a positive mind. Have faith that you will be happy again. Remind yourself everyday that you are special and deserve only the best.
In conclusion, the best way to get revenge is moving on and forgetting about your ex. Start putting these very powerful ways to get back at your ex in action today. Your ex will be green with envy when they see the new you.
